Nollywood actress, Cossy Orjiakor, says she will not change her lifestyle to suit her husband.
The actress who made this known in a chat with Punch stated that her husband will have to accept her the way she is.
She said, “I want to settle down but I am not in love with any man at the moment. As a matter of fact, I may end up adopting a child; instead of having a baby for a man I am not in love with. I do not intend to change my life because of marriage.
“Nothing will stop me from being Cossy. My husband has to take me the way I am. I can only stop because of God and not because of any human being.”
The dancer and singer also stated that her previous relationship collapsed because they gave too many people the opportunity to have a say in their relationship.
Cossy Orjiakor further disclosed that as a rule in their relationship if one party offended the other; the guilty person would do a frog jump but her former lover refused to because of the influence of his friends.
She continued “My relationship with my ex-lover went sour because we allowed too many people to have a say in the relationship. Both of us are on talking terms and I have asked him why he said some false things about me on Instagram. He told me he had deleted the false claims from his page.
“When I leave a man, I do not try to go back to him. I try to leave in peace and avoid being enemies with my past lovers; and I guess he was just trying to get attention. I think he did that to me because he was still mad at me.
“We had a little misunderstanding and the rule was that if one party offended the other; the guilty person would do a frog jump. I also do it when I am wrong. However, he refused to do the punishment when he erred because his friends told him not to. But I have forgiven him.”
Written by Oluwatobi Olusola
