It’s only a couple of weeks before the year comes to a conclusion and so many have been in over 300 talking stages, 100 potential partners and end up with zero to no person to lay next to at night. The essence of life is to love and to live, to create worthwhile memories with someone you love and genuinely desire.
It’s a cold world, hence, we need someone to share heartwarming moments with.
It’s a cold day in November and I am writing this article to let you understand that you can still actually meet the love of your life before the year comes to a conclusion. As a matter of fact, you could meet them in the next 24 hours should you apply yourself to the methodologies I’ll be disclosing soonest.
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Prior to delving into the various ways to approach your singularity, I would love to state that it is essential to first understand where you are at the moment.
Now, let’s get into it: Here is how to find love in 2024
LOVE YOURSELF
You owe it upon yourself to love yourself. Yes, you need to build a worthwhile self-esteem and self-worth. It begins with you, love yourself first and your prospective partner would meet you where you are.
The thing about loving yourself is that, it makes you create boundaries for those who want to deal with you.
Hey, it begins with you.
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PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE
It’s fast becoming a cliche, put yourself out there- your work (on LinkedIn for jobs), your skillset, your personality, etc. Create a social media platform, depending on your personality and who you are, share your intelligence, wit and probably, your photos (yes, don’t be a ghost).
You can’t keep hiding from the world; do not apologize for being beautiful; beauty does fizzle, hence, enjoy the beauty that life has blessed you with. It’s your life, therefore, don’t be apologetic about who you are.
Put yourself out there, the little things that makes you who you are. Enough said.
ATTEND EVENTS AND NETWORK
Similar to the aforementioned point, do not keep hiding from the world. Battle your imposter syndrome, wage war against the mindset that you are not ‘good enough’ or the ‘world doesn’t need you’. Best believe that there is someone out there who wants to share the moment with you and prefers your introversion (quietness, shyness); your calm aura is someone’s truest desire- be at peace with yourself and watch the world evolve around you.
Back to the point, attend parties, seminars, festivals, symposiums, etc. don’t forget to say hello to people, not necessarily whom you find only attractive but those who are around you.
Network and connect with people, you can become the sunshine in someone’s gloom.
Say hello today.
GET A WING MAN: TELL A FRIEND ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL
Get yourself a wingman; someone who can speak for you when you have nothing to say, a person who can accentuate your confidence when you are shy or anxious. Get yourself a wingman, get yourself someone who can talk on your behalf.
Who says you have to do it alone?
Who says you must seek your babe by yourself? Why don’t you tell your friend that you are interested in someone and just get the stress off your chest. Interestingly, they might also have a better person for you.
You cannot always do everything alone, sometimes, you just need a confidant or a wingman.
SHOOT YOUR SHOT!
Now, over to you. Sometimes, you just need to take responsibility for your happiness, yeah, go ahead and shoot your shot.
Understand that you miss 100% of the shots that you don’t shoot. Though rejection is a part of life, on the flip side, success awaits you on the sunny side.
I wish you the best of luck in your search for love. Cheers, mate.
