Sean “Diddy” Combs‘ recently posted heartfelt message to his late ex, Kim Porter is medicine after death. Yesterday, the 50-year-old rapper and business man took to Instagram to praise his late ex for being a good woman adding that men who have good women in their lives should let them know and honour them because they may not get a second chance.
In his words: “If you got a good woman please let her know. Tell her as soon as you can. Make sure she knows. Make sure she feels it. HONOR HER. CHERISH HER. Cause the special ones are RARE and FEW. And everyone doesn’t get a second chance. LET THE ONE YOU LOVE KNOW TODAY. RIGHT NOW!!!! @ladykp I’ll honor you forever. ”
A timeline of Diddy and Porter’s Relationship
Diddy and Porter, who began dating in the ’90s, had their first child together in 1998 and broke up in 1999 while they battled in court over child support for their son. Diddy went on to date singer Jenifer Lopez for two years before he and Porter reconciled in 2003.
In an interview for Essence‘s December 2006 issue, Diddy shared that he had no plans to marry Porter. ” I know she deserves to be married, but I’m not ready,” he said. ” It’s not a reflection on how much I love Kim. It’s that I’m just learning how to be a good boyfriend. When I’m finished with this step, I’ll move on to the next.” Less than a year later, the pair split up for the final time.
” In ending this relationship, I made a decision that was in the best interest of myself, Sean and our family, I look forward to moving on with my life and my career, and wish him prosperity, health and happiness in life and in love. We will remain friends and committed parents to our children,” Porter said in a statement at the time.
That same year, Porter opened up about their breakup. She shared that Diddy betrayed her when she found out he fathered a baby with another woman while she was still pregnant with their twins.
Sadly, Porter passed away in November 2018 following a battle with pneumonia.
Medicine after death
The question here is why praise Porter now? Because Diddy‘s loyalty to Porter while she was alive is still in question. His message reeks of guilt and regret. Diddy‘s message now to Porter who he claims to love should be an apology for cheating on her and leaving her for another woman. Another message that will suit Diddy is ‘You never know what you have until it’s gone.’
While some people might praise Diddy for his eye-opening message, advising his male followers not to make the same mistakes he made, well, advice is more fun to give than to receive.
Did he honour Porter when she was alive? No. The Diddy we know has quite an interesting history with females. Is he in the best position to give an advice? I guess not. He has pursued more women over the years than anyone can count.
Meanwhile, Diddy was spotted vacationing in Miami with a mystery woman named Jordan. Prior to that, he was linked to Harvey‘s stepdaughter, Lori Harvey. Obviously he comes running back to social media whenever he remembers how he treated Porter. However, honouring Porter “forever” is not going to change anything. Can he turn back the hands of time? Certainly not.